When your love for each other is way too strong, deep and public, even your friends will start wishing they were you and when they can’t, they would do everything to end your relationship.
Ever imagine why some people get jealous of other people’s relationships? Well, here are 10 ways to know why your relationship isn’t loved by ALL.
1. When some people try to start drama.
It’s not just rumors, but it’s the idea that people want to see one of you get mad. You’re at a party and people are like, “OMG, isn’t he all over that girl,” and you’re like, “No, he put his arm around her in a picture.” But people just want to see if there’s a chink in your armor.
2. Your relationship social media game is on point.
No one is jealous of that couple who constantly argue or post 1,000 kissing selfies on Facebook. But they will be jealous of the couple with playful banter who don’t post too often.
3. Your boyfriend has a female BFF who loves him too much .
This “friend” isn’t jealous of your relationship, she’s also jealous of you. Your boyfriend is probably completely oblivious, because he’s a nice guy and the idea that two women want to sleep with him probably never occurred to him. You’re lucky like that.
4. People who spread weird rumors about you.
Some people may just find pleasure is sending out some odd shit about how often you fight, or that you’ve cheated, or things that couldn’t be further from the truth, because people don’t trust how happy y’all are.
5. When people you know don’t like your status updates.
Because your vacations and date nights posts look too perfect, some of your friends would pretend they didn’t see them hence wont click the “like” button. You’re not that petty, but sometimes it sucks not to get feedback when you know you just slammed a good picture in their faces.
6. Your PDA is actually too adorable.
Some of your friends would wish they were you guys buy because they are not, they will condemn your PDAs. They would say its not “our culture or tradition” to be so open about your feelings for each other in public.
7. You don’t get invited to “couples things.”
Although in some case, this could mean you’re just a real garbage couple. But if you know that you’re not awful to be around, it could just be that people hate seeing a couple that’s so happy, because people don’t like being reminded that they’re miserable and they haven’t done anything about it.
8. Your friends hate hearing about your relationship “issues.”
It feels like they go on about their problems all the time when they see you, and they dismiss your happy stories. It’s probably because your relationship is so great that their problems look petty by comparison. It might be frustrating at times, but it’s a good problem to have.
9. Your friends complain about their boyfriends and you don’t even realize they’re serious.
If you’ve been confused by people complaining that their boyfriend is a cheat/can’t make them orgasm/isn’t romantic … congratulations, you’re very obliviously happy and everyone secretly hates you.
10. People say, “I’m so jealous of your relationship.”
They mean it. That’s not an empty compliment.