If you’re reading this, you’re tired of questioning yourself and the people around you. You just want to learn how to be more sexual. Now’s the time for this phase of your life to happen. Because at the end of the day, you’re the only one who can change this. It’s time to have better sex, and feel sexual.
1 Understand this is about you. This isn’t about your partner or someone you just hooked up with. This is about you. If you want to be more sexual, then you’re going to have to accept yourself and start loving yourself.
Aside from having a low sex drive, which could be the problem, many people are simply lacking the confidence in order to be sexually free.
2 Confidence is key. If you want to be more sexual then work on your confidence. This seems to be the key to everything, because it is. Confidence is truly the key for most of your internal issues and struggles. You simply don’t respect and love yourself enough to let yourself go and be free. Go stand in front of the mirror completely naked and tell yourself you’re beautiful because you are.
3 Talk to your partner. If you’re seeing someone, sit down and have a chat with them. You’re now aware that for you to become more sexual, you need to work on your self-confidence. But this also means that you’re going to need support from your partner.
Tell your partner about how you’re feeling, the changes you want to make and what you’re going to need from them. If they’re truly someone who cares about you, they’ll help you along the way. If not, well, the first thing you need to do is ditch them.
4 Why aren’t you sexual? There can be more than one reason as to why you’re not as sexual as you’d like. Maybe you have a low sex drive, maybe you’re depressed–these factors all play an important role when it comes to your sexuality. Educate yourself and see what you think may be the problem. A quick visit to the doctor can be a huge help for increasing your sexual intensity.
5 Time is everything. This isn’t going to change overnight. Rather, this may end up taking weeks, even months to increase your sexual levels. You know what, that’s okay. Everyone is different, the point is, you’re working on yourself. So, don’t rush the process. Instead, take the time to understand your body and the changes it’s going through. [Read: How to feel sexy and desirable all the time]
6 Spend more time with your partner. If you want to be more sexual, then why not spend more time with your partner? The lack of time you spend with your partner actually kills intimacy and creates detachment.
Yes, you’re busy, they’re busy but that doesn’t mean you should throw your relationship in the trunk. Spending more time with your partner will make a huge difference when it comes to you becoming more sexual. That is unless you don’t like your partner. If that’s the case, break-up with them. [Read: 15 super simple ways to keep yourself sexy at any age]