HOW TO MAKE A MAN ADMIRE YOU, CHASE YOU, FALL IN
LOVE WITH YOU AND MARRY YOU!
If you don’t want to grow white hairs before you get married,
here are the things you need to do to attract your man and get
married on time:
1. SMILE: Men love smiling women. No, not the one that
begins and ends with the mouth, the one that starts from the
eyes. Genuine, loving smile attracts people, creates friendship
and unlock doors! Learn to smile at people baby, women who
lack men’s attention rarely smile. They are always cold and
look as if they are carrying the problem of the whole world on
their head! Some of these ladies even frown a lot! Look,
everybody has a problem, no man wants to add another
person’s problem to his own. Be a genuinely happy person and
show it by smiling at people. Men will find you irresistible and
seek to know you more.
2. BE HUMBLE: Humble women don’t lack suitors! One way to
stay single for a long long time is to be proud and cocky!
Proud women are a big turn off! If you always roll your eyes at
people, segregate yourself from the company of common
people, talk down on anybody and you are practically rude
because of your class, money, car, social status, job, etc, you
will stay single forever! Be humble! Learn to accommodate all
class for people. Learn to serve others. Learn to use “sir” when
talking to men. Some men may tell you it doesn’t matter but
secretly, they love it. Men love it when women address them
with respect. Learn to be respectful and submissive to
3. BE CONFIDENT: Confident women are attractive any day
any time. Knowing who you are, pursuing your dreams, vision,
passion and goals makes you a confident person worth
investing in. When you know your reason for being here on
earth is far more than getting married, punch out few kids and
stay locked in the kitchen forever, you approach life with a
positive mind set, you are energetic and confident in who you
are, you have a good, sound self esteem and men are
irresistibly drawn to you.
4. BE FRIENDLY: Ladies who keep to themselves hoping some
Prince Charming will find them are not ready for marriage. Be
friendly! Being friendly is different from being desperate and
cheap. Go out. Attend positive programmes, conferences,
seminars, workshops, symposiums and serve in your local
church. Enjoy meeting people and getting to know them purely
for friendship not for marriage. A man can smell it a million
mikes away if you are desperate and chasing him. Just be
yourself. If you are just being friendly and he thinks you are
cheap, that’s his headache! Don’t let that stop you from being
friendly to people. Smile a lot, meet people and be a happy
person to have around.
5. BE GENEROUS: Stingy women who can’t part with anything
don’t know what marriage is about. Be generous to people. Be
generous with what you have. Be generous with your smile,
your love, your talent, your service, your money, your prayers,
whatever you’ve got that can bless lives. Generous women are
men attractors, they never lack admirers.
6. BE FORGIVING: Forgive all your EX, forgive the guy who
abused you or rape you, forgive all who disappointed you in
the past. Practice advance forgiveness, forgive people before
they hurt you, more people will offend you. If you find it
difficult forgiving people, you will grow bitter and people will
move away from you especially men. Release the man who
promised you marriage but disappointed you and married
someone else. Actually, you were not meant to be. If you had
married him, you may have been divorced or dead! Thank God
for it and move on. If you don’t release that man you may
never find any man to marry! Men will unconsciously move
away from you and you will be singe and miserable for the
rest of your life!
7. BE INTELLIGENT: Men like intelligent women. Know when,
how and where to talk. Don’t be a dummy upstairs. Know what
is going on around you. You shouldn’t be a naive, empty-
brained, beauty queen. Your face may get you into the
marriage, your brain will determine how long you last. A man
likes a woman who can give intelligent answers to questions
and contribute meaningfully to discussions. If he asks you,
“Why is Nigeria in the mess we are in?” And you scratched
your head, looked at the ceiling, bite your finger and say, “I
don’t know” Your brain needs revival!
8. BE NEAT: Dirty ladies are not good marriage candidates.
Some ladies look great outside but if you see where they step
out, you will remember world war 2! Very dirty, disorganized
and rough to say the least! No sane man wants to marry a
dirty woman. Learn to be neat. Take good care of your
underwear, learn to shave. Keep off the body and mouth
odour. Deal with the eczema and pimples, do your hair on time
or comb it well. Always appear neat and presentable.
9. LEARN HOW TO DRESS WELL: Wear something that fits
you, not what is in vogue. Get a good tailor who can sew
clothes that fits your body shape. Learn about your body shape
and wear something that flatters your figure. Straight ladies
need clothes that flatters the waist line. There are some
clothes good on hourglass not good on pear, apple shapes will
look great in shirts and suits, pears will look great in gowns
etc. I’m not saying you can’t wear different kinds of clothes,
just wear the ones that fit you. They make you sweet to look at
and simply irresistible!
10. LOVE YOURSELF: You can’t love others if you don’t love
yourself. Celebrate yourself. Accept yourself the way you are,
you are simply the best. Don’t envy anybody. Not everyone’s
got what you’ve got, celebrate your uniqueness. Men love
ladies who love themselves. Don’t envy someone else’s looks,
love what you have. Don’t wish you have a fuller chest, heavy
bum, sexy nose or longer hair. The man God created for you
needs someone exactly like you and will fall in love with you
just the way you are so chill and appreciate God.
11. BE GODLY: Godly women carry God and carry gold. Men
find you irresistible.
12. BUILD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR DAD AND
SIBLINGS: It tells a man how you will treat him in marriage.
13. BE FEMININE: Some women have masculine nature: the
“Tomboys”! And there are men who love tomboys, honestly!
Not with standing, learn how to sit like a lady and talk like a
lady! It’s “un woman” to sit with your laps thrown apart, you
belch loudly after gulping a bottle of malt and barge in and out
of a house like a soldier! Even soldiers are regal in their steps!
Stop giving men the impression that they want to marry a man!
Be ladylike! Learn it if it is not natural with you.
14: BE HARDWORKING: No man wants to marry a lazy,
indolent, passive, idle, backward, sleeping, purposeless and
visionless woman! You will attract your kind! If you want a
hardworking man, be hardworking, up and doing, agile,
proactive, versatile, business minded, creative and industrious.
Learn how to make money and have an active bank account!
15: READ BOOKS: Ladies who read instead of jumping from
house to house gossiping about nothing in particular don’t lack
good suitors. Read godly books that will bless your life and
make you a testimony to others. My husband was attracted to
me because I was a voracious reader. John Mason brought us
16: GODLY ASSOCIATIONS: Some women will never marry
until they change their friends. If you want to marry fast, you
will need to let go of your unserious friends who enjoy
clubbing and get close to married women with beautiful
marriages whom you can learn from!
These and more are the things you need to do to get a godly
suitor and marry gloriously. You still need to pray though,
some delay are spiritual in nature. No matter what you do, you
may never get a man to marry if you don’t break some yokes
through earth shaking prayers and violent application of the
You should practice all these if you want to get married on
time and also get in the word, pray against delay and deal
with every stronghold and spiritual problems in your life. I see
you getting married soon in Jesus name. Do not forget to send
me an invitation. FEEL FREE TO SHARE. God bless you,
HOW TO MAKE A MAN ADMIRE YOU, CHASE YOU, FALL IN